How to Run a Household Without Quarreling, Fighting, and Violence
How to manage a household – the commonly accepted behavior model for spouses is presented in the comedy “Divorce American Style.” There, the main event unfolds against the backdrop of doing the dishes. Psychologists know how disputes over household chores can escalate into legal battles. The imbalance in household work between married men and women is well documented. Most of those who ignite hostility earn roughly the same amounts. When it comes to managing a household, today’s couples believe that old gender norms are outdated. What fairness actually looks like depends on the couple. For some people, it may closely resemble a 50/50 split. Psychotherapists say that sometimes couples get fixated on the idea of perfectly equal division of labor. However, they do not realize that family relationships are not employment. In dual-income families, partners may have different types of jobs, such as varying work schedules. A psychologist working with military families has observed how spouses behave when they have to move frequently. Here, they had to consider the workload of the service member, who usually earned more. In such cases, conflict-free relationships were often supported by wives who understood the situation. Psychologists often heard from them: he earns more, so he should work less at home. Psychotherapists admit that there is no single correct answer. The main thing is that both parties must feel comfortable and help each other. Methods for resolving household issues are developed by the spouses’ heads. If both lack sufficient brainpower, no advice will help.
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