**Typology of Men: A Psychological Approach**
You may ask me: what else do we not know about the psychology of our dear strong half? And I will answer: you know practically nothing about male psychology. In reality, a man is far from the character passionately described by all the women’s magazines for quite a long period; he is neither a reckless child nor a kitten in need of your care and attention, no matter how much some may wish to impose that idea. Let go of your dreams and try to see reality through my eyes.
Let’s go back to our school years and remember a biology lesson. Every species of living organisms has its own typology (a kind of classification into classes). Men, in this case, are no exception. Immediately discard the definition of a man as an object of your guardianship. First and foremost, he is a male who spends most of his time dreaming about women who embody his ideal. This could be a girl he happened to see in public transport or one he saw naked in one of his favorite magazines (banal, but a fact). Throughout an ordinary day, the average man spends several hours dreaming about women, and only the remaining time is allocated to his home, work, favorite sport, and various small chores. These dreams lack any rational basis, as they represent us as completely different beings. There is not a shred of truth in this, except for the distribution of his time.
Thus, when creating a typology, we start from the aforementioned definition.
1. **The Lover**. From the name alone, the main function of this type becomes clear. Such a man buys stacks of magazines and downloads movies from the internet. He undoubtedly has several games with virtual partners on his computer. He rarely thinks about responsibility, and therefore is not suitable for family life. A husband like this will flirt even with cashiers and conductors. What’s the benefit of him? Another definition of him is the selfish man. He lives only for himself and for his own sake. He doesn’t care about your modest gifts on his birthday just as much as he doesn’t care about your concern for him. There’s no need to go out of your way to try to tame him! He will only ponder his behavior when you leave him.
2. **The Romantic**. Yes, yes, dear ladies. Such men still exist in our time, but for some reason, they are less sought after. The reason is simple: when you realize that someone is chasing you, you lose interest. But some ladies are not against listening to poetry written for them and sipping a bottle of wine with a romantic by candlelight. Often, this type can be a writer, artist, or even a rock musician. All of them are creative individuals, and therefore, instead of blind conquest, they prefer to employ a more refined tactic. But do not forget that they still have one thing on their mind. Also, do not confuse a romantic with a gentleman. They are different people. A romantic can be a romantic only until the first night, whereas a gentleman is entirely different, and we will discuss him a bit later.
3. **The Gentleman**. Probably the rarest type. I can name only two or three men who could claim this title, but nevertheless, such people still exist. A gentleman also thinks about women quite often, but his perspective is different from that of the previous specimens. He is extremely conservative, respects family values and heritages, and seeks to befriend a woman first before discussing further relationships. Strangely enough, a gentleman will behave somewhat like a woman should behave with a romantic man and possibly with a lover. He will try to be extremely unattainable for you so that you attempt to understand him on a spiritual level. Strict suits, a glass of champagne, and a touch of hands – that is his standard image. Despite existing stereotypes, a gentleman can also be polyamorous (after all, what stops him?).
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